And when I clicked on a picture, the city and/or state changed to someplace nearby... There has to be a legitimate adult dating site out there. "Welcome, Stephen, and thanks to my colleague, sexuality expert Cory Silverberg, for sending you my way.To answer your question: it depends on what you mean by legitimate.Are you looking for an adult dating site that caters to adult encounters or casual sex, that isn't full of scammers or fake profiles?
My first recommendation would be to try Lavalife's Intimate Encounters section; you sign up with them and then decide which of the three sections you want to be a part of (Dating, Relationships or Intimate Encounters).
You can use different handles in each section under the same account too, so no one will be any wiser if you want to advertise for one thing in one place without ruining your chances for something more should it come up.
Maybe the person just jumped the gun and quickly put up a profile before they acquired a picture.
Maybe they’re still suspicious of internet dating in general. Whenever you run into a profile that’s a little strange, whether it’s a missing picture, just one headshot that looks like it was ripped from a stock photo site, or deliberately vague descriptions, run your “common sense” check. Are you prepared for the possibility that it could be a scam?
If the idea of a picture-less profile is just too much of a gamble for you, most dating sites will allow you to filter your searches so that you only include profiles with pictures.