And from a guy’s perspective, when a relationship gets like this, it becomes much less likely for a guy to want to stay.
Why would the guy want to deepen a relationship when it doesn’t feel good and seems to only be getting worse?
Well, the most important advice I can give is to have a high sense of self worth- know what you want and know that you CAN get what you want and never have to settle for anything less.
Now this isn’t something that you need to say, it should just come across in how you act.
I’m not going to take fitness advice from someone who is terrible shape and I would encourage you not to ever listen to dating advice from someone who has never had a good relationship (unless you are looking for a recipe on how NOT to act). I am not advocating abandoning a relationship because it’s not perfect – nothing ever is.