It turned out they went to High School together and he had a huge crush on her, he was so excited to finally get his chance with her.
The date went extremely well and he wanted to take it further, but she didn’t find it appropriate for the first date.
If you gather up the strength to leave your relationship after this unfortunate turn of events, Smith explains, expect to When [cheaters are] denying reality, seeking to blame others and avoid responsibility, then making [their] ex-partner the bad guy is really pretty easy and makes sense.
Making [their] partner out to be the bad one, and the one who has done wrong, can make [their] wrong behavior seem right.
None of this will make you sympathetic toward the person who hurt you the most -- and it shouldn't.